About Fran

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Woman portrait photo
Woman portrait photo

From Chaos to Flow: The Birth of an Authority

Hi, I'm Fran,!

My personal journey to using this tool was, well, huge. It began after we made the massive decision to sell our home, leave everything familiar, and pursue a life with more flexibility, all while traveling with my two kids, aged one and two.

Navigating constant change, from washing and making healthy-ish dinners to the never-ending nappy changes, created a tidal wave of old patterns and behaviours that desperately needed addressing. I had deep attachments to the bricks of my first home, to baby clothes my kids wouldn't wear again and moving through that took immense courage. This was a pinnacle moment and the birth of Flow State Authority.

For 16 years, I was a hairdresser working for a company not knowing that the whole time I was working under a conditional system to prove my own worth externalising my worth by the success system the business operated from with targets and percentages, if I hit target then I saw this as a reflection of my worth, but after having my babies close together, I knew I needed to step away and be present. Like many people, I was drinking the "cocktail of life" a blurry mix of childhood, work, friendships, and relationships and struggling to decipher what was actually serving me.

I personally specialised in a super amount of emotional suppression and found it incredibly difficult to open up, especially to anyone male (counselling had its place, but the fear of shame and judgment still held me back).

Using the Emotional Freedom Technology Tool, helped my family find a smoother, less chaotic daily life. It helped me, and my partner, calm ourselves down so we could be better parents and partners, commanding more space and respect. For me, the tool offers instant relief, 24/7, with no bias and no judgment. If I feel a trigger, a tummy flip, or a feeling I'd prefer not to have, I type the situation in and get an instant EFT sequence to help me out.

Every single person experiences 'trauma' in some capacity it's part of being human.

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) involves spoken words addressing the negative while tapping meridian points to diffuse the freeze/fight/flight response. Yes, it looks unusual! I know the resistance is severe; when it was introduced to me, I had a toddler tantrum in the form of a 32-year-old woman: I feel silly, people will stare, how can it even work?

Check out Frans Mobile Hairdressing and her restored furniture ~


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Art made with one intention, to reflect your essence

Classical allegorical painting depicting a group of figures gazing toward a divine light breaking through dark clouds, symbolic atmosphere, renaissance-inspired composition, golden undertones, oil on canvas
Classical allegorical painting depicting a group of figures gazing toward a divine light breaking through dark clouds, symbolic atmosphere, renaissance-inspired composition, golden undertones, oil on canvas
Classical allegorical painting depicting a group of figures gazing toward a divine light breaking through dark clouds, symbolic atmosphere, renaissance-inspired composition, golden undertones, oil on canvas

100% Authentic and painted by hand.

Art made with one intention, to reflect your essence

Classical allegorical painting depicting a group of figures gazing toward a divine light breaking through dark clouds, symbolic atmosphere, renaissance-inspired composition, golden undertones, oil on canvas
Classical allegorical painting depicting a group of figures gazing toward a divine light breaking through dark clouds, symbolic atmosphere, renaissance-inspired composition, golden undertones, oil on canvas
Classical allegorical painting depicting a group of figures gazing toward a divine light breaking through dark clouds, symbolic atmosphere, renaissance-inspired composition, golden undertones, oil on canvas

100% Authentic and painted by hand.

Art made with one intention, to reflect your essence

Classical allegorical painting depicting a group of figures gazing toward a divine light breaking through dark clouds, symbolic atmosphere, renaissance-inspired composition, golden undertones, oil on canvas
Classical allegorical painting depicting a group of figures gazing toward a divine light breaking through dark clouds, symbolic atmosphere, renaissance-inspired composition, golden undertones, oil on canvas
Classical allegorical painting depicting a group of figures gazing toward a divine light breaking through dark clouds, symbolic atmosphere, renaissance-inspired composition, golden undertones, oil on canvas